We don’t have the kind of relationship where he can tie me up. He’s tried. Then he’s gotten bossy – and in turn, I have gotten pissed. Why? If bound, he loves to take advantage of me. And not always in the good way.
A few months ago, G started exploring rope tying, or rigging for those who know the lingo. He went to some classes. He read about it. And he tried it on me for practice. Didn’t work so well. The pics as you may recall turned out nice, but he loved being able to push me around – and, well, together with the fact that is not our dynamic, I was pissed off. Hardly the foreplay we anticipated.
But last night, he begged to try it again. I decided I was game. It was all the beer. (Long, shitty work day + dinner & beers with a good friend = relaxed, easygoing Emmy) Anyway, he played. I tolerated and teased. And, it was worth the results.
He has decided he wants a playmate – a woman who wants to be tied up and who is tolerant of it. I’m all for it. It’s more back to where our relationship was – just a different requirement and a new website.
Until he finds another woman, I will tolerate. I DO like the pictures.
And we DID have some fun later.
Guess it wasn’t all bad. 🙂