Snuggled under the covers, curled up in bed with a crazy pitaroo at our feet, we finished watching one of The Grand Tour episodes we had missed. It was Friday. It had been a long, busy week. So it felt like a good end to the evening. The episode ended. G shut his laptop and…
Tag: sex
Only In My Dreams
I woke up at 3:40am on the brink of an orgasm. And frustrated. Because I was on the brink of an orgasm while dreaming – and I woke up which kept me from having one, or so my frustrated self believed. What I remembered from the dream was fragmented but easily pieced together. I was with…
The Importance of Standards
I remember the first time I had a cock in my ass was in college – I was maybe 19 years old, and G suggested it in the middle of some hot sex. I had always loved anal stimulation. I discovered that at like 14 when I was masturbating like a stereotypical teenage boy. I…
Parenting A Teenage Girl
“How to do you handle it?” The final question at the end of a lengthy private message on Facebook. The parent of a girl that has been friends with DJ since they were six had messaged me asking how we navigate her dating. How much supervision? Do you worry about sex? How do you handle it…
Allegation Bingo In Kink
My friend expressed great shock at the post that went up on Fetlife about a man with whom she had been in negotiations. The post was written by a woman. And it followed the usual points…. “I didn’t know if I should say anything.” “I feared the backlash.” “Too many put false trust in this…
50 Shades of Reconsideration
This week, Erika Moen put forth a comic on Oh Joy Sex Toy about her thoughts on 50 Shades of Grey. And honestly, it gave me pause. I have written about my thoughts on this book with the bend being why it isn’t a good representation of a healthy BDSM D/s relationship. And I truly…
Labels Are For Jars
Monday night, I snagged DJ who was about to get on the train home and gave her a ride home instead. Really, I just wanted someone to go with me to the store because I knew it would be a mad house. And why go alone. While we were driving, she started babbling as she…
Self Care at 3am
I found myself awake at 3 am – missing his body wrapped around me as he does when I’m in his bed. I rolled on my back – and just that act made me remember everything from yesterday when we were together. I could feel the places on my skin the flogger, paddle and leather…
Words Triggering Delicious Images
There are times when something comes across my twitter feed that evokes a strong feeling – a strong image in my head of what has past, what can come. And I can’t help but sink into that image – that fantasy because the emotions evoked are so strong – so real – that I can…
Sexual Energy
“Suck my dick.” I moved fast down the bed to take him into my mouth and worship him the way he deserved. A drive, a snack, a nap, then wine had launched us into this space where the energy was flowing – the passion followed the energy – and I was ready and willing to…
