- A massage
- A bike ride
- Time in my garden
- A great place to photograph a sunset
- To sit next to water for an afternoon
- To laugh hard with a friend
- To touch and be touched – even in a non-sexual way
- To read a good book while laying in a hammock
- A good meal – vs one that centers around how much we don’t want to heat up the house or stand in front of heat
- Cuddles
- An OTK spanking
- An undiscovered place to take photographs
- A long talk with a friend
- Calm
- Quiet so I can think
- To eat a fresh peach
- A new pair of running shoes
- An a-ha moment
- Time with my little bro so I can smack him across the head for going back to the wife who treats him like shit
- Less seriousness in my day
- Less pressure to do things that don’t feed my soul
- To finish dealing with my jeep so I can drive it again
- To get my tattoo finished
- To have those good unexpected talks with the kids
- To just be.