I recall when I came into the community and heard a woman call a man “Daddy”, I rolled my eyes. I thought inside “Daddy? Really? Someone have Daddy issues?” Yeah, I went there. It was a concept I didn’t understand – and internally, we are all a bit more judgemental than what may come out…
Tag: kink
Sexual Energy
“Suck my dick.” I moved fast down the bed to take him into my mouth and worship him the way he deserved. A drive, a snack, a nap, then wine had launched us into this space where the energy was flowing – the passion followed the energy – and I was ready and willing to…
A Word Evoking The Lizard Brain
“But first, you know what I want from you,” he told me. No more explanation was needed as I sank to my knees in front of him – and took his cock into my mouth. “That’s a good girl. Make Daddy’s cock good and hard.” His cock slid in between my lips – each time…
Keeping It Vanilla
“What did you do during your 4-day weekend?” The true answer I wish I could give to my cohorts just for comedic reasons: “Well, I attended a three-day kink conference where I learned lots of fun stuff about negotiations, rough sex, finger banging, dungeon games for predicament play, among other things. Then I got beaten…
A Hand in My Hair
Sitting knee-to-knee at the bar, talking, laughing while we take periodic sips of our drinks. He leans over to me – kissing me softly at first – but then deepening it. I lean in and return the passion he is giving. Enjoying the exploration of his lips and tongue – and providing my own to…
I Am Kinky, Kinky Am I
(listen to this – and you’ll understand what prompted this post) My mom was a horrible person. Not really, but given how she hooked me on certain books when I was a teen – she was a horrible, horrible person. I remember when she found a book she had loved as a teen. Rosemary Rogers…
Things Not to Say at a Kink Party
I have a friend who is kind of pissed at me right now. All because I called his ass out on his bad kink party etiquette. Wil Wheaton has a rule online that he summarizes nicely: “Don’t be a dick.” This is a great GREAT rule for people to adopt in a BDSM environment (or,…
An Energy Bubble
Even that seems to be a poor description of what I felt tonight. Yesterday, I tweeted this: That is what I felt tonight. I felt the positive energy coming from all kinds of people. The energy I needed to take a deep breath and go into a situation where I was unsure emotionally how I…
A Poly Complication?
A friend of mine asked me a question yesterday – out of the blue: do you find that marriage complicates poly After reading it, I breathed for a moment as the urge to smack him (he’s married) was too great. I was a bit annoyed that he would phrase it as such – as though…
Your Marks
I feel your marks – each time I sit. I feel where your paddle struck my thighs. I feel where the cane welted the skin of my ass. I feel where you took me hard as I was bent over your bed knowing all I could do was take it. I feel your marks each…
