I like this approach to life – and I have plenty of scars to prove it.

I think this should be rule #2 behind “Don’t be a dick”

You do that – and you’ll surprise people unexpectedly. Nothing wrong with that.

I like this approach better. It’s easy (especially behind a keyboard) to argue – but to discuss and try to find understanding and ways of looking at things differently, well, I appreciate that more.  Plus, it lessens the stress.