- Whining is not sexy.
- Emo is not sexy.
- Saying “I’m sorry” and explaining why? Totally sexy.
- Random “I’m thinking about you” – totally sexy.
- Random “I’m thinking about you” accompanied by a cock shot? Not always sexy.
- Owning your own emotional crap? Sexy.
- Trying to be the center of attention because someone else has it, and you don’t like it? Not sexy.
- Making someone laugh? Sexy.
- Treating someone like gold while fucking over your primary partner? Not sexy.
- Overreacting instead of asking questions or trying to help? Not sexy.
- Anticipating the needs of your partner? Sexy.
- Doing it without asking for acknowledgement? Totally sexy!
- Communicating? Sexy.
- Being a dick about things online? Totally NOT sexy.
- Being a good parent to your kids? Sexy.
- Finding beauty in what society deems not standard beauty? Very sexy.
- Accepting people for who they are? Sexy.
- Trying to change people? Not sexy.