No one is perfect. Why we continue to strive for perfection while knowing it is not attainable? Let yourself be happy instead of striving for what others consider as perfect.
You can’t change the past. You cannot dwell on it either or make people pay for what they did when years has gone by – and they and you have changed. Not forgiving the past is pointless. Why? Because, it’s not going to change anything now. You can’t fix it. It’s in the past. It’s like deciding now that you really wanted to get an A in junior year english class. Too late. Move on. You are a better person now. Hopefully they are too. Put it to bed.
We focus on the wrong things sometimes. We don’t do what makes us happy because we focus on something else. We hook up with the wrong people – people that stress us out instead of makes us smile. We need to laugh not stress. We need to love, not hate. Seems like a simple recipe, but one, that I’ve found, works extremely well. And makes like good.
And I’m not just talking about in sex or a kinky way. Sometimes realizing you are not in control is freeing. You just have to take the curve as it comes versus trying to control the curve. You can only control yourself and your response to things. The rest is all a spontaneous journey. Enjoy the ride.
And a bit of Monday morning snark. I think I will vow not to say them outloud – unless, well, the evil thoughts could make someone squirm. Squirming is good. I advise you to do the same.