e[lust] #22

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~ This Week’s Top Three Posts ~

Erotic asphyxiation: treatments of kink in therapy and the media – Kink and BDSM practitioners often come to an enhanced understanding of their own desires through the emphasis on personal boundaries and communicative consent which arises from a responsible approach to power and pain play.

Mirror, mirror – I found myself back there again, perched on the edge of the white expanse, spreading myself shamelessly in front of the glass

Worry – I’ve been thinking about rape culture more than ever before. On the outside, much of K’s and my play looks like sexual abuse. It’s not, because consent is always central.

~ Featured Post (Lilly’s Pick) ~

gender and misogyny: responsibility and erotic writing – I spent a good portion of my adult life being gender fluid myself …, and have partnered with several gender fluid folks as a top. Creating representation of us and our eroticism feels so vital to me, so important.

~ e[lust] Editress ~

Help End the Backlog – Speaking out works. Taking action works. Silence doesn’t. Politicians on every level need to hear your voice saying “this is unacceptable”. 76%. 3/4. That’s how many rapists get away with it on a national level.

See also: Pleasurists #111 and #112 for all your sex toy review needs

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Erotic Writing

A Tryst By The Car

Compliant

Fantasy: Brand New Day

First-Time Sex: How I Lost My Virginity

Happy New Year

Hysteria

Indiscretions Vol. 1: Caught And Wild Chlid

Like Mother, Like Daughter (part two)

Loving her, Mounting her, Owning her

Merry Christmas Baby

O/One