“I don’t know why I’m nervous,” I thought as I was driving to the club for the kink party. I tried to remind myself that it was nervousness like when I was playing softball – not scared but anxious to just get things started because I knew once there, all would be fine. But…
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Allegation Bingo In Kink
My friend expressed great shock at the post that went up on Fetlife about a man with whom she had been in negotiations. The post was written by a woman. And it followed the usual points…. “I didn’t know if I should say anything.” “I feared the backlash.” “Too many put false trust in this…
Never Pinch a Sadist: Demons & BDSM
This is a tricky subject. This is a controversial subject. I can only hope I get my point across. Recently, someone in our local community posted a rant/reminder about touching. Consensual touching is a big deal in the kink scene. The number one thing I tell all swingers who are at a kink party is…
Never Pinch a Sadist
The lovely and beautiful Veronica at ASM commented the other day that “Never Pinch a Sadist” would make a great book title for an intro to BDSM book. What a great idea for a series of blog posts, I thought. The first one will be something I spend time doing each and every month at…
