Never Pinch a Sadist #2

A couple weeks ago, Veronica at ASM suggested that Never Pinch a Sadist may be a good name for a book on BDSM. I thought it might make a good name for a series of posts about BDSM from my perspective. I thought I would use this one to talk about my dilema with SG….

The 10 Commandments

Note: I started this blog post after a conversation I had the other night with the lovely Veronica.  During the course of it, she commented how this would make a good blogpost.  This started out as one thing, but turned into this one – a more generic version of the concept. So, thank you for…

Communicate with Me

In our relationship, we have rules that are carved in stone and some that are written in pencil. The main one carved into stone is communication. And boy can that stone hurt when it is thrown at you when you aren’t communicating effectively. I think that is the key to communicating within the bounds of…