The Voyage

There is a place I realized I had driven by but never through to explore it. I realized that back in October or November when a show did a whole thing about the ghosts that live there. The ghosts were a combination of the white people who settled and tried to keep people safe in…

Friday Feelz

Subdued. Shocked. Sad. Yesterday while at home trying to kick this crud that I caught, I got text after text after text from a cohort. I was half asleep when it started, so I tried ignoring it until it become clear I needed to call. I checked my work emails first to see if there…

Reality

Reality is – I cannot undo the experiences of the past. Only you can decide to undo them. Only you can decide that it is time to let it go – to realize that maybe that time was the exception and not the rule. Only you can put it at peace and choose a different…

Through The Looking Glass

I shoot photos at a monthly kink event. It is a lot of rope – some impact scenes – and a shit ton of “kinky” people who like to wear it but not play it. And that’s a statement, by the way, not a judgement. People need to be who they are – and that’s…

Friday Feelz

Cooked. Done. Counting down the minutes until I can go home. Tired. Each year, the company holds a management summit that starts on a Wednesday afternoon and lasts through Friday about 1pm. During that time, we spend, well, way too much time together meeting, eating, drinking, and team building. By the time Friday comes around,…

Oh, Friday, I’m in love~

click here to listen to the song. I’m feeling those lyrics today with how this week has gone. It’s been a long crappy week….some more…..still. I don’t know anymore. I’m trying to shift my thinking and all to a place where the shit that keeps happening won’t bug me as much – where I can…

Loyalty Tested

No, this is not a motivational Monday bonus post. This quote and image summarizes where G and I have been pushed as of late. I speak very vaguely about the bonus kid in our house – and very sparsely. Most of the posts I have mentioned the kids get locked after a period of time….

Winter Wonderland?

I grew up in the ice, snow, and cold. I wish I were exaggerating, but the truth is we got snow in November (sometimes October), and it stayed until April or May. We just dealt with it. I walked to school under layers of coats, hats, scarves, and socks. You always drove on ice and…