I recall when I started in the workplace, the big trend was to call a problem “an opportunity”.  This to change the way we looked at it.  A problem is negative. An opportunity brought forth positive thinking, creativity and people who wanted the chance to solve it.  Sometimes something that minor – a change of wording – can change the way we look at things.  Change our attitude.  Hell, whatever works is what I say!

I recall this moment vividly.  Funny how at the time, I felt good but horrible.  Don’t question your gut.  It may bring forth feelings you don’t like initially but it is probably right.  You deserve better.

Sometimes saying nothing is a more powerful statement than say anything.  Sometimes say nothing helps you get beyond things better than anything.  Don’t downplay silence as bad. It’s usually just the opposite.

So very true.