They are not negatives – they are parts of who you are. Embrace them for what they are. Opportunities. Chances to learn.
Before you ask, ask yourself are you prepared to hear what you may not want to hear. The people who care are not going to say what you want to hear, but what you need to hear. Those who pay you lip service, are not doing you any service.
Be who you are. That amazing you.
Focus on building the new. Let go of the old. Only then will change occur.
May you be as unstoppable as a t-rex with reachers.