People in a relationship make love seem complicated. Don’t blame love for what people have done to it.
I love it when people get loud while trying to make the same point over and over again. If you aren’t getting through, change the tact. Listen to figure out what is being missed or why. Make a better argument. But yelling….well, while it may be a good release valve for frustration is never a way to “win”.
If you feel people are throwing rocks at you, it can only mean you are outshining them. Always remember that and let those rocks bounce off rather than shatter you.
Choose to enjoy the ride.