It is really easy to compare what you are going through to someone else – and wonder why they don’t have the issues, etc. But remember that you are only seeing the highlights – what they have allowed you to see. It isn’t fair to yourself to compare your reality to their highlights.
Often times we won’t way what we think because we are afraid it isn’t what the person wants to hear – or we think they need to to hear something else. Don’t do that. Doing that is dishonest to both of you. Plus, let the person know your thought process – where you really stand. It’s hard but it’s more honest than anything else you can do.
Remember – no one gets out alive. Stop taking so much seriously. Stand back – let it happen – laugh. Enjoy the life you have.
Happy Boxing Day!