I have to remember this one myself sometimes. I want things from people without telling them – and when I don’t get it, I think it is for a reason – they don’t have the same feelings I do. In the end, they are just giving me what I need – just not in the way I wanted. Never means they didn’t love or appreciate me – juste means they showed it differently.
This is one for men. Men, generally speaking, jump into problem solving mode when a woman in their life is having problems. They focus on the problem – and not the person. Never forget the person. Because sometimes it isn’t the problem that needs solving that will make the person happy. Sometimes it is being held, being talked to, being listened to – that makes the person happy. Problem be damned.
YES!! There are many times in my own life where I push the discomfort away, take a deep breath, and dive right in. You know what I find? It is never as bad as I had imagined. And, most of the time, it is a better end result than if I hadn’t done that.
We can be our own worst enemies – so don’t believe if cannot be done. Believe instead that you are the one who CAN do it while others don’t believe that.
Happy is a good thing to be when you grow up.
AMEN! Might I suggest Plants vs Zombies to get your zombie killing fix?
Or at least watch Zombieland.
Wanna have fun? Tell someone this today.
Make someone’s Monday because everyone wants to be wanted – in that way too.
Hope you kick Monday’s ass today!