e[lust] #22

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~ This Week’s Top Three Posts ~

Erotic asphyxiation: treatments of kink in therapy and the media Kink and BDSM practitioners often come to an enhanced understanding of their own desires through the emphasis on personal boundaries and communicative consent which arises from a responsible approach to power and pain play.

Mirror, mirrorI found myself back there again, perched on the edge of the white expanse, spreading myself shamelessly in front of the glass

WorryI’ve been thinking about rape culture more than ever before. On the outside, much of K’s and my play looks like sexual abuse. It’s not, because consent is always central.

~ Featured Post (Lilly’s Pick) ~

gender and misogyny: responsibility and erotic writingI spent a good portion of my adult life being gender fluid myself …, and have partnered with several gender fluid folks as a top. Creating representation of us and our eroticism feels so vital to me, so important.

~ e[lust] Editress ~

Help End the Backlog Speaking out works. Taking action works. Silence doesn’t. Politicians on every level need to hear your voice saying “this is unacceptable”. 76%. 3/4. That’s how many rapists get away with it on a national level.

See also: Pleasurists #111 and #112 for all your sex toy review needs

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Erotic Writing

A Tryst By The Car

Compliant

Fantasy: Brand New Day

First-Time Sex: How I Lost My Virginity

Happy New Year

Hysteria

Indiscretions Vol. 1: Caught And Wild Chlid

Like Mother, Like Daughter (part two)

Loving her, Mounting her, Owning her

Merry Christmas Baby

O/One

Should Have

The Starlet

Undiscovered

Wax Off

Whenever I’m Alone With You

Yeeees. Date Night

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Breaking Up, Polyamory Style

Computer Sex

Douchebagopolis – When Communication Fails At A Swinger Party

Epiphora’s best and worst sex toys of 2010

Good Head

Hormones & Biological Clock Ticking

Lockets, Sins and Ink

Off My Chest

Swing Shift Volume 39- One and Only

Semi-Rant Part Two

Kink & Fetish

Barely Cooking Christmas Party

Camp Smack That Ass!

Fucked in bondage

Fucking bitch

How He Does It

Master’s Good Medicine

Paddled and Fucked

Parodies and Pizza Boys

Photographer

School Girl Night

shes and me…

You Know It Was Good When…

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